Are You Tired of Accepting Less?
I know that many of us struggle with things on a day-to-day basis where we feel trapped and fed up with the way people treat us or the job we are in or whatever else that might be bothering us. Now I know you might be tired of this same thing happening to you over and over again, but I am going to ask you again what I think is the most important question: If you are so tired of it, then why do you keep accepting it? I am not going to go through every possible way that you might be accepting the way things are because honestly you probably already know. I know that you are tired, but just saying you are tired and complaining is not really going to get you anywhere.
If you want to move forward from this place that you feel so stuck in then maybe it is time for you to take action and change your circumstances and surrounding environment. If you are in an environment where people treat you like you are less than you are then change it. It is okay to let people out of your life sometimes. Now, let me be clear, I am not telling you to just kick somebody out of your life because they look at you the wrong way or because they slip up and say the wrong thing one time. What I am telling you is this: stop holding onto people just because you are afraid of being alone. This can also translate into whatever job you might be letting you down. Do not hold onto a job where everyone treats you terribly just because you think you won't be able to find another one.
I say this phrase a lot. I say that you have got to be sick and tired of being sick and tired if you want to see some real change in your life. Just because you say you are tired of something is not going to be enough. You have to be willing to go a step further. You have to be willing to make the necessary changes and the necessary sacrifices for your life to transform into the life that you want. Sick and tired is just a starting point. To jump off from there you have to be completely done with your life as it is. You have to be ready to make some really radical changes in your life. When I say radical I do not mean a lot of changes necessary. I just mean meaningful changes.
Lastly, I just want to say that in order for you to stop accepting less and start getting the life that you want or even the life that you deserve, then you have got to stop accepting the way things are out of fear. If fear is a part of the equation as to why things are not going better in your life then you need to really look at your life and find out how you can embrace what you think is right for you to be accepted regardless of what you fear might happen to you if you do. Get sick and tired of being sick and tired, and stop accepting less.
It all starts with you.