Can You Trust the People in Your Life?
Sometimes in life we try to fill voids in our life with people. We can't lets our voids in life to control our lives. These are extremely hard to deal with and we always want to fill these voids in order to avoid them. Our current mindset is to fill these voids as quickly as possible. By doing this, you put yourself in situations that aren't good for your life.
Just because something seems good, that does not mean it is good for your life.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to fill these voids you feel. However, you shouldn't' accept just anything to fill those voids. I know it is hard to hear this, but you have to do what is best for you. Stop settling for what seems good! The people who secure your insecurities are not good for you. Find people who build you up rather than tear you down. Don't let people control your life by letting them tell you what you want to hear.
It's time for you to work on you and understand you. If you cant be happy alone, you don't need to be in a relationship. I believe a powerful relationship happens when two complete people come together. If you are letting your partner complete you, how will you be if that person leaves you? You will constantly be in a cycle of finding someone to fill your void.
Some people will present what you need, so they can take what they want.
You are somebody. Don't let the voids in your life lead your life. Work on yourself and give yourself time to heal. Don't be so quick to give your trust away. Treat your life like you treat your house, be selective of who you let in. Protect your life and make people earn a place in your life.
It's your life. You control how you live it.