Create Change In Your Life
Today I want to talk to you guys about a formula for change in your life. I want to talk to you guys about what you can do to make some serious changes in your life. I was on my instagram recently and I was asking you guys to ask me questions and I kept getting the same questions over and over asking about change so I thought it would be a good idea to revisit that idea today. Now I want to be clear that when I say that I have the formula it does not mean that if you do these things that everything in your life will immediately and radically change for the better, but I do know that if you follow this advice that it will set your life up best and it has certainly helped me in my life.
The biggest thing that I see people overlook all of the time is that you are a great human being. So many of us are so harsh on ourselves because of a million different reasons. Some of us are very harsh towards ourselves because of our past or because we are not living up to the person we want to be in our lives right now but it is so important for us to know that we are not our past. We are not the mistakes that we have made in our lives. So many of us judge our lives based on our current reality. I went through the same thing for a long time. At a certain point I realized that I needed to stop defining my life by wins and losses, I needed to stop defining my life by what is bad right now, I needed to stop defining my life by what is going wrong. Because eventually I realized that certain things have to go wrong so better things can then go right in your life. That is how life works. When one door closes another one opens.
So when we think about change the first thing that we need to think about is the choice required to make that change. If you want to change then you have to be sure you are fully ready to make the choice to change. I know that change seems nice and sounds good on the surface but a lot of us just don’t ever think about all of the hard work that comes along with it, and it is hard work to make real change in your life. So the first thing that you have to do is decide whether or not you really want to change or if you think it just sounds nice. Because if you really want to change in your life then you have to be ready to make the commitment. The commitment means that you will do something long after the drive you had to do that thing initially goes away. Commitment means that working on change will not always be fun, and it will not always be easy but you will do it anyway. If you are willing to make the choice and commit to it, then you can make some real change in your life.
It all starts with you.