One thing that I always see is people trying too hard. I am talking about people trying too hard to impress other people. You need to stop trying hard to act like you are something you're not.
We all live in a world where perception is everything. You need to put up a perception that you are doing something that you're not. You need to be honest with yourself because you are the only one who knows what is real in your life. You know if you are really living a certain lifestyle that you are portraying.
In many of our lives, we want to put off the perception that we have everything together. We want people to believe we are successful. We always want to get this "life" as easy as possible. We sweep all of our problems under the rug and we don't deal with those issues. Then, that stuff we put to the side will eventually come and effect us another time.
It's 100% okay to not have everything together. You have to go get what you want and be willing to put in the work. The reality of what you see on social media is not the reality of life. You can't sit here trying to please people without embracing your reality.
You will never win your wars by running from your battles.
Don't ignore your reality. Go through whatever you are going through to get to your next chapter. You need to take advantage of opportunities that are thrown your way. Opportunities may not always seem like they will be great, but everything that comes your way has come fro a reason.
Stop being picky about the opportunities you take. Take whatever life throws at you and make the best of it. You never know the blessings that may come from that one opportunity. If you are being given an opportunity to try something new or explore a new option, you should do it.
Do what you need to do to make your life better. Don't be afraid to fail. You don't need to post your failures on social media. Stop caring what over people think. It's your life.
You don't want to fake it until you make it, but you don't want people to realize you were faking it. Put in the work and be who you are. Who you are is your greatest gift. Be you.
It all starts with you.
