People That Will Ruin Your Life
Today I want to talk to you guys about the people that will come into your life and ruin it if you allow them to stay in your life. I have talked plenty of times about how people can only break your heart once unless you give them permission to do it again. That is the reason that listening to my words today (or reading my words) is so important. It is important to know the different kinds of people that will ruin your life so you can recognize them and guard yourself and your heart from them when they try to break your heart. So without too much more explaining, let’s just get into it.
The person we are talking about today is the user. This type of person is a person that only loves you just as much as they can use you. I am just going to be straight up with you. This is the kind of person that is probably not really attracted to you. This is the kind of person who is attracted to what I would say “surrounds your life.” So maybe, you are an athlete, or you are popular, or maybe it is the job that you have and the environment you are in, or maybe it is the significance that you have socially. Whatever it is, they are attracted to that piece of your life instead of actually being attracted to you. They are attracted to the benefits that come with you. They are attracted to the things that make them look good by being around you. They are attracted to what they can take from your life. So you have to ask yourself, if all you had to offer was you, would they still be your friend? Now I am not trying to freak you out and make you overthink every relationship in your life, but if you have a question about someone in your life and all they do is take take take all the time from your life over and over and you never get anything back out of that relationship then it might be time to throw in the towel on that one, because a relationship only works when it is reciprocated.
Any relationship should be a two way street when it is a good relationship. If you are not willing to let go of that person in your life I am going to tell you what will happen to you. What is going to happen is you are going to allow that person to drain you. You are going to be dragged along by them using you time and time again and you are going to start to feel empty and bitter about not just their relationship but other relationships you have in your life because they will be draining you of all of the energy and positivity that you used to have. So you have got to let go of the user before they have a chance to use you.
It all starts with you.